Thom's rumblings
there's a very subtle difference between doing things "by being a nice guy" and doing things "to be a nice guy":

alaskamiller:

one wants to get in your pants the other just wants you to be okay.

Hmm, that reminds me of the trouble with cross-dressers: they never have enough clothing and always want somebody else’s. So, there’s probably also a fine line between being friends because you look great in your clothes, and being friends because they’ll look great in your clothes.